An Unsettled Day and Then Success!

Yesterday was not one of Boo's best days. I left him for three hours to keep an appointment. During that time, a friend came to check on him. He was terrified. In his mind, someone was trying to break in. So, he hid his peanut butter sandwich and corn cakes under his pillow and refused to answer the door or the phone. I came home early to find him holding onto Boudreaux and huddled in bed. After a medication to help calm him and a lot of reassurance, he was OK, although still convinced he'd saved himself and his trusty cat. This is the most disoriented that he's been since we moved in November. Oh well...Next time, I suppose that I need to thoroughly prep him for all schedule changes.

Today has been easy. He's calm, cool and collected. I did leave him to accompany a friend to an urgent care with the clear understanding that another friend would be coming in immediately after work, about thirty minutes after we left. Boo did just fine and seemed quite proud of himself. His first words to me were, “I didn't panic or anything. I knew you'd come back and everything's OK.” I forget the importance of detailed explanations, repetition and large notes to reinforce his memory sometimes.

As soon as I figure out what I'm doing that I shouldn't be doing or not doing that I should be doing, I'll upload some current photos of Boo. Uploading photos should be easy.

Boo at Thanksgiving

     Now that it's almost Christmas, I'm finally able to post Boo's Thanksgiving photo.  I guess anytime you tell him it's time for dinner, he gets excited.

We're Still Alive!

Yesterday with my son who was visiting.

Our inside cat

     I'm sorry it's been so long since I've posted anything.  Moving, getting used to the protocals with new doctors and clinics, adjusting to new medications and adjusting the dosages and timing of others have taken a toll on both of us.  Boo is adjusting well.  He has more good days than bad ones.  Our biggest struggle right now is adjusting to unexpected changes to Boo's routine---changes that seem small to me often seem huge to him. 

     Boudreaux is still Jim's companion.  Since we moved, Boudreaux has been an inside cat.  He managed to escape Thursday when I was at Duke.  Evidently he went out the bedroom window and right under the house.  When I came home, he came right to me and has refused to go near an open door or window.  Boo has spent hours telling Boudreaux how imporant he is and how much we love him and worrying that he'll run away again.  (A side note:  Boudreaux generally doesn't like to be held.  Boo can pick him up anytime and rub him.  Usually when Boo calls Boudreaux, he comes running.  Coming when called is not a reliable trick and it only works with Boo.  I guess he's always going to be Boo's cat.)

We'll Miss You!

Sacred Heart Catholic Mission

Boo after Mass

     This was our last Mass at Sacred Heart before we moved.  We will truly miss this warm, caring parish and will always treasure our wonderful friends.
     We have finally moved and are unpacking and settling in.  Boo is calm and happy.  He talked to some of his friends from Hillsborough last night.  Boo (and I) are enjoying our "adopted family" here.  Boo is quite content with a Chihuahua on his lap while he listens to the TV.  Boudreaux has not adjusted as well.  Bou spent the first day behind the sofa.  Today he's in our bedroom---calm, quiet and content in the knowledge the dogs are on the other side of the door. 
    I'll post pictures and further updates soon.  Back to unpacking!

Packing

     Please excuse my long "vacation."  Right now we are packing to move closer to Duke.  As much as I hate moving---chaos, disorganization, etc., we are both looking forward to being closer to some old friends. 
     Boo is handling all the packing and chaos well.  I've tried to confine most of the chaos to the front of the house which we don't use anyway.  Thus far, I've managed to continue with the same pharmacy for Boo.  They deliver to the house.  We  can still use the same service when we move---yeah!  I plan to have all his six month blood work completed before we move and a hard copy of his medical history in hand when we leave. 
     Although I will miss Boo's doctors here, there are two major medical centers within fifteen minutes of the new house.  So...I'm going to try to "interview" several practises for Boo on the phone to narrow the search for a reputable practise.  I've also called several friends in the area who are either RNs, work with the elderly or care for elderly parents to get some recommendations.  We'll see...
    

Break Time

Earlier this month.  He was in desperate need of a haircut!

     I know it's been too long since I've posted.  Somehow life seems to have a way of interfering with my best laid plans.
     Boo was hospitalized for a few days after one of his BP medications was omitted.  He's taking it again and his BP has responded.  We are taking a break from trying to reduce his BP meds right now.  He began losing some kidney function according to blood tests.  So, one of his diabetic medications was discontinued and a different one begun.  His BP and glucose levels are great!  I can't monitor his kidney function as well at home.  At his next doctor's appointment, his kidney function test will be repeated. 
     Boo's appetite has returned!  He is on a 2,000 calorie low salt, carb conscious, diabetic diet.  I use a spreadsheet to keep track of his sodium, carbohydrate and calorie intake daily.  It's become second nature now, though at first it seemed very regimented.  I keep a tray of raw veggies in the fridge with dip that he can eat anytime.  Fresh fruits I hide.  He'll eat every one in the house in one sitting if not monitored---and that plays havoc with his blood sugar.
     We have been attending Sacred Heart regularly.  At Boo's doctor's suggestion, Boo and I sit on the front row.  Being closer to the front helps him to focus and keeps him from seeing all the people present.  Father John comes over to give Boo communion before the other communicants and comes to bless him at the end.  Boo seems to be very comfortable with that routine.  Yesterday he actually talked to some of the parishioners as we were leaving!  He's never done that willing before and I haven't pushed him.  Sacred Heart is such a loving, welcoming community that I'm glad he's responding positively.  He definitely enjoys going to Mass.
     I probably won't be posting as regularly for three to four weeks.  I have a few health issues and I need to work out a treatment plan AND ease Boo into a new, hopefully brief, routine.  I will try to post when I can.

Another Power Outage

     For the second time in five days we've lost all power for several hours.  This first time was in the daytime and, while it did get hot, Boo managed the disruption quite well.  Because Boo is listed as disabled with the electric company, someone from the company calls with regular updates on the outage, someone comes to the house if the outage is more than an hour and a half to make physical contact and offer appropriate services (use of a generator, an ice chest with water and transportation to the emergency room or an air conditioned shelter).  I was impressed with their diligence.
      Last night the power went out again.  Once again, the electric company made repeated contact and offered services.  I thought everything was going well.  Boo had eaten dinner, bathed, was dressed for bed and very calm.  He went to bed with no problem and slept---at least I thought he was sleeping.  I stepped out on the back stoop to give one of our elderly neighbors batteries for their flashlight.  Boo got out of bed and walked out the front door with his rolling walker.  (How did he manage to open the front door?  It isn't easy.  How did he manage to get out the door so quietly?)  However he did it, he was out alone in the dark and I panicked!  Boo was safely found four doors from our house sitting on his rolling walker beside the Methodist church---by a utility worker who stayed with him until I got there.  Boo was on his way to Mom's house because he thought she had power.  We were given a ride to Mom's house where  Boo was checked by EMTs.  He was fine.  (That made one of us, I was a basketcase.)  Boo ate a snack and went to sleep in a recliner.  I have had enough power outages to last the rest of the summer. 
     Today Boo is calm, alert and happy.  He doesn't have clear memories of last night.  Some days and nights are more interesting than others.  I'm voting for less interesting days and nights for a while!