Boo
grew up in southern Louisiana as the third child of seven. His
childhood was rich with family, food, religion, hard work and a
strong dose of Cajun flavor. Capturing his memories is an ongoing
project for us. Because he has stroke related dementia, I want to
record as many of his memories as I can now while he still remembers.
Childhood photo of all children, shared by one of Boo's sisters. Boo is on the top row on the extreme right. |
First
Memory
Boo's
first and most persistent summer memory is working in the family
truck patch garden. “I hated
working in that garden! Mom always made me work in the garden when
the guys were going to ride horses.”
Boo
remembers that they grew tomatoes, okra, potatoes, spinach, green
peppers, a little corn and cantaloupe. The green peppers “we
chopped up everyday and put in almost everything. We grew Irish and
sweet potatoes. I like baked sweet potatoes best. When we were
good, Mom baked sweet potatoes and we had them for a treat.”
Cantaloupes were a summer favorite of his. “Mom would cut them in
half and we'd scoop the insides out with a spoon. They were so
delicious, good anytime.”
Second
Memory
Going
to the swimming pool in Crowley is another fond memory and a special
treat, especially in the Louisiana heat before the days of air
conditioning. “It was tough to get there. When we did, it was
fun.”
“One
time I was showing off and did a back flip off the diving board. I
kicked myself in the head and knocked myself out. When I came to,
everyone was screaming. I looked in the water and saw blood and I
started screaming too. I think I broke my nose then.” That
experience evidently didn't deter him from swimming---or probably
from showing off.
Third
Memory
One
of the highlights of Boo's summers was spending time with his Uncle
AJ and Aunt Elda. His Aunt Elda was his mother's sister and his
godmother. When he was about fourteen, he remembers going with his
first cousin, Bob, to swim in the Sabine or Calcacheu River. He
thinks he remembers swimming across the river, but isn't sure of it.
Uncle AJ and Aunt Elda, about mid 2000's
Fourth
Memory
In
the late summer and early fall, Boo remembers taking picnics in the
woods---although he can't remember the name of the place they usually
went. He, his brothers and sisters and sometimes cousins would
build a fire and watch it until it burned down to coals. Then they'd
cook rabbits, squirrels or fish over the hot coals.
His
favorite part of the picnics was picking blackberries. “You have
to pick them and eat them fast.
That's the best way. Pick them off the vine and eat them before
they get any riper.”
Fifth
Memory
Boo
and his brothers, Raymond and Joe slept upstairs in the attic bedroom
which was unbearable in the summer heat. So, in the summer, he and
his brothers were moved to the screened in back porch to sleep. It
felt like it was officially summer when they got to sleep on the
porch and listen to the birds and watch the sky get lighter in the
morning.
Sixth
Memory
Sometimes
when Boo was able to break away from working in the truck patch, he
and his friends rode horses to their special place in the woods.
They built a log cabin/fort where they played for hours in the
relative coolness. “I could actually run across an open field near
our house to go to the cabin. It was a kind of refuge for me.
Sometimes I swam in the pond behind the cabin.”
Seventh
Memory
Making
homemade ice cream was another summertime treat. (It still is. I
think that man could eat his weight in ice cream!)
Boo
remember churning ice cream with his brother, Raymond, and his
sisters. Joe was too little to help. They used fresh milk from
their cow and all took turns turning the handle on the churn.
Stealing ice chips from the churn and sucking them was a sneaky
pleasure. Boo's favorite flavor of ice cream? Strawberry.
Eighth
Memory
Boo's
next three memories centered around his Aunt Tot. Aunt Tot was
another of his mother's sisters who lived nearby on the old family
home place. She was crippled and used a wheelchair. Boo remembers
watching her fly off the porch in her wheelchair and land on the
wheels without missing a beat.
Aunt
Tot baked homemade yeast rolls in a wood stove. Boo remembers
chopping wood for her and taking it to her house. Hot, sweaty work,
that was offset by “the most delicious individual yeast buns. They
were to die for.”
Ninth
Memory
“Aunt
Tot liked to play Bouray, a Cajun card game. She'd collect the coins
from the game and slipped me some of them. She was always so good to
me.” Boo used to save the coins for things he needed in school,
like doughnuts. His school served homemade doughnuts for ten cents
in the morning and he often spent his saved coins on them. (Now, I
better understand his “need” for doughnuts. They bring back good
memories---and they're sweet.)
Here's
a link to learn more about Bouray.
Tenth
Memory
Boo's
last memory today was of going to his Aunt Tot and Uncle Adolph's
house for dinner and praying a family rosary. He remembers gathering
in the front room of their home. Uncle Adolph usually led the rosary
in Cajun French. The family responded in English.
This
is the point he stopped. We had to pray the rosary in Cajun French.
Thank goodness one of his daughters gave him a CD of it in Cajun
French because I certainly wouldn't be able to help him otherwise.
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Oh my goodness. I am so glad you are writing these down. What happy memories. What a simple, yet full living family Bo comes from. I would love to have ridden across the woods and play in the cabin! And my grandparents played cards in the evenings too!
ReplyDeleteNow that am older even gardening seems fun. Which I am sure it wasn't to a teen Bo...You should write down yours one day too.
Thank you for sharing Kari.
Thanks! I really enjoy writing Boo's memories down and reminding him of them on his "unsettled days." We've been trying to make videos of him talking about his memories. That hasn't worked nearly as well.
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